Watch This Before You Make Another Decision

The problem is, 98 % of people are sitting on 50/50, their whole fucking life, which means they're zero-zero.. So when you're 50/50, you get one day and anything else is you're, just fucking sitting and bullshitting.

. So fucking flip a coin pick the one, never look: back. ( waves, rolling, ), ( electronic noises, ) [, Woman, ] Anybody out there. I have a big life decision to make between two choices. ( electronic noises.

). How do I know which way to go? You'll, never know what the alternative would have been.. You pick one and you never ever ever even consider to look back. [ Woman ]. Do you have any quick piece of advice? [ Man ]? What should I do? Should I do [ Man ], I don't know which one to pick.

[ Man ]? What should I do? [ Interviewer ]? So what should we do? Gary V [ Man ]? What should I do? [ Interviewer ]? What should people do Until you go through it? You won't know.. I always play this out.

. Let's say when you go to heaven, they can show you what would & # 39. Ve happened'cause that's. The only way you'd ever see it., Let's. Just say what people don't understand is oh Becca. You made the wrong call.

, You should & # 39, ve went to grad school instead of that opportunity or this company instead of that company.. But you'll, never believe it., You should & # 39, ve went to VaynerMedia and it was perfect and you rose like the phoenix and you were the head of all sound and everything went great.

. But then you had to go to Virginia on business and you got hit by a car and you died at 31. That's. Life. (, calm, instrumental ). I passed on Uber as an investor twice in the beginning.. If I did my normal 25 $ 50,000 check, I would've made $ 400 million, which means I might & # 39.

Ve went to China for a keynote two years ago, which means I could've got hit by a fucking bus.. I really believe in that shit. You just don't know., You think you know, but that is not how life works.

So to look at two ideas and think you can practically make a good decision is laughable. Literally flip a coin. ( coin flipping ) Just pick the one that feels better right that second. And make it about you, because usually what kids struggle with is the decision they want to do versus the decision that they think they're supposed to do based on the other voices.

. You know, I think everybody who's listening right now, if you wan na set yourself up for success, ask yourself how much risk you've, taken in the first 10, 15. 20. 30. 40 years of your life.. You're gonna figure it out by tasting it.

. Should I eat this cherry? Will I like it? The right strategy is to fucking eat the cherry. Right. Moving is important.'Cause. You can change the course.. You can't overthink it up. Front. Right, You just can't.

Like we're, always wrong.. A lot of people make the wrong decision., No matter what I say to your question right now, and they're scared. They'll, continue to be, they won't. Do they won't put in the work or they'll be fearful or whatever it may be, and they'll lose.

. I mean a lot of people lose. A lot a lot, a lot, a lot of people lose.. The way to really eliminate fear is by not giving a fuck about anybody's opinion., My losses are mine.. I'll deal with them. Myself.

I don't need your two cents.. You're, losing plenty on your own.. If you don't give a fuck about what people think you can do, everything., But the quicker you start, the quicker you do.. I think people dwell.

And I think dwelling is the wrong strategy.. I don't even respect my losses.. I don't even give them the time to teach me anything.. I fucking look'em in the face and just go & quot Fuck, you & quot, and I keep going.

Think one time for one hour make the decision and go. I don't wan na hear you fucking complaining about it. Everyday. - And I mean that. Way too many of you dwell on your losses.. It's. Holding you back.

Too many people make a decision and then cry about their decision. Every fucking second. You made a fucking decision. Own. It live it sleep in that bed. Shit's over., You lost., Move the fuck on. ( birds, chirping, ), Literally flip a coin.

Guys. The only thing I'm hedging against is regret.. That's. What you need to be careful, of., Regret's, scary. Regret., And that's. What most people do. They build a life that leads to regret. Nobody old and about to die talks about what they did.

. They talk about what they didn't do., And you're in the best spot right now. You're in the best spot. You'll, ever be. Straight up.. This is the time to be most thoughtful, but everybody wants you to figure out your life.

Now., Your parents, don't, have their lives figured out.. This is the time to taste and put yourself in good positions.. You could do everything wrong for the next 10 years of your life and be young as fuck.

And have unlimited time to do anything. You want. (, serene instrumental ), [ Woman ]. Thank you Gary. Now. I know which way to go. ( waves crashing ) By the way it was tails.. The problem is, 90 % of people are sitting on 50/50, their whole [ __ ] life, which means their zero zero.

So when you're 50/50, you get one day and anything else is you're, just [ __ ] sitting and bullshitting, so [ __, ] flip a coin. To pick the one? Never look back! Anybody out there, [ Music ]! I have a big life decision to make between two choices.

How do I know which way to go? We & # 39, ll, never know what the alternative would have been. You pick one and you never ever ever, even consider to look back. What should they do? Which one should I do? So what should we do? Gary wishing people dibs until you go through it, you won't know.

I always play this out. Let's say when you go to heaven, they can show you what would have happened because that's. The only way you'd ever see. Let's. Just say what people don't understand it. Oh, you need the wrong call.

You should have went to grad school instead of that opportunity. We're in this company instead of that company, but you'll, never believe it. You should have went to vaynermedia and it was perfect and you rose like a phoenix and you were the head of all sound and everything went great.

But then you had to go to Virginia on business and you got hit by a car and you died a31. That's, life [, Music ]. I passed on uber as an investor twice in the beginning. If I did my normal twenty-five, fifty thousand dollar check, I would have made four hundred million dollars, which means I might have went to China for a keynote.

Two years ago, which means I could have got hit by a [ __ ] bus. I really believe in that [ __ ], you just don't know you think you know, but that is not how life works so to like look at to ideas and think you can practically make a good decision is laughable.

[, Music, ] literally flip a coin, just pick the one that feels better right that second and make it about you, because, usually what kids struggle with is the decision they want to do versus the decision that they think they're supposed to do.

Based on the other voices, you know, I think anybody who's listening right now, if you want to set yourself up for success, ask yourself how much risk you've, taken in the first 10, 15. 20. 30. 40 years of your life, you're gonna figure it out by tasting it.

Should I eat this cherry? Will I like it? If the right strategy is to [ __ ] eat the cherry right moving is important because you can change the course. You can't overthink. It upfront right, like you just can like we're, always wrong.

A lot of people make the wrong decision. You know no matter what I say to your question right now, and they're scared. They'll, continue to be, they won't, do they won't put in the work or they'll be fearful or whatever maybe, and they'll lose.

I mean a lot of people lose a lot a lot. A lot. A lot of people lose the way to really eliminate fear is by not giving a [ __ ] about anybody's opinion. My losses are mine. I'll deal with them myself.

I don't need your two cents. You're, losing plenty on your own. If you don & # 39, t give a [ __ ] about what people think you can do everything, but the quicker you start, the quicker you do. I think people dwell.

I think dwelling is the wrong strategy. I don't even respect my losses. I don't even give them the time to teach me anything. I [ __ ], look them in the face. Let's, go [, __ ] you and I keep going think one time for one hour, make a decision and come.

I don't want to hear you [ __ ], complaining about it every day, and I mean that way too. Many of you dwell on your losses. It's, holding you back too many people make a decision and I cry about their decision.

Every [, __ ]. Second, you made a [ __ ] decision own. It live it sleep in that bed. Shit's over you lost move the [ __ ]. On guys. The only thing I'm hedging against is regret. That's. What you need to be careful of regret, scary, [, Music, ], regret and that's.

What most people do they build a life that leads to regret nobody old and about to die talks about what they did? They talk about what they didn &, # 39 t do and you're in the best spot right now you're in the best spot.

You'll ever be straight up. This is the time to be most soft. Thoughtful but everybody wants you to figure out your life. Now your parents, don't, have their lives figured out. This is the time to taste and put yourself in good positions.

You can do everything wrong for the next ten years of your life and be young as [ __ ], and have unlimited time to do anything you want. Thank you Gary now. I know which way to go [ Music ]. By the way, it was tail [, Music, ],