The One Video That Will Help You Figure Out Your Life | A Gary Vaynerchuk Original

Everything that happened yesterday, that means nothing [ Applause ] when you're 19 and you can spend seven full years learning your craft meeting, people that are mentors being patient and you wake up and you're 26 years old.

You have your entire life in front of you and you've done great foundational work to go on of them be successful. I just don't get it. I don't get why people think at 18, 20 to 30 that they have to have their life figured out when they live to 90 and aunties any quick piece of advice.

It's patience tonight it's, patience. It's, you can't, be lost in life. When you're this young, you actually have everything figured out eighteen or twenty percent into your life, absolutely not not more importantly than that, your life evolved changes as you get older too many kids don't take advantage of time.

They're in such a rush to find it or be doing it that they don't. Take advantage of the thing they have figuring. Everything out is a forever game. Have you figured out how awesome you're gonna be as a grandma when you're, still, not a grandma, whether it's, your parents or yourself or people, everybody's, trying to prove something so Early because the pressures of society, the pressures of your siblings and most of all, the pressures of your parents, so many of you are scared to fail, because your dad's gonna make you feel bad about it and I'm.

I've empathy for that that sucks, I'm very fascinated by negative energy that is not cut. Out of all. You need to put your [ __ ] ear pods in or this ideological thing that the media or culture has put in your head of what you're supposed to be or how you're supposed to roll or what's supposed to be happening at this point.

It's, ludicrous you're, not lost in life. They're just early in the process. You just don't need 90 year olds that talk about how pomp they are that they made an extra hundred thousand dollars like they.

Don't exist. They talk about regret. I wish I did literally. Inevitably I do this. I wish, as the opening line, the judgment you put on yourself, that is actually being fabricated by outside forces is to me the thing that I'm, trying to fundamentally broke that breakdown just fundamentally trying to break it down everybody's.

Judging themselves way too early, you can literally do nothing for next eight years and be a child time is your asset. The one thing a 20 year old has over me is 20 [ __ ] years, but you don't think that because when you're 20, you don't.

Think 31 is young. Maybe there's. Another view yeah, I mean that's. You know it's. Oh wait. Everybody's, got strengths and weaknesses. What what a 60 year old has is experienced, but doesn't have time what youth has is time.

You can literally do four different things over the next two years, six months at a time to figure out everything that you think you might like. You should try to do, but that's, not what people tell you to do 100 %.

What I would do is gather as many experiences as possible. Go and travel and learn, go and start that business that you've, always wanted hook up with those three teammates and start that band you've always wanted.

This is the time to be massively risk massively risk oriented pick something. If I can do it, you're [, __ ] young kid. You do all 19 things, but if you're under 30 to 33, and you're devastated that you don't, have your life figured out? You're, just looking at the game completely wrong.

Take a breath, take a [, __ ] breath and so that's. What I'm, trying to tell people it's. What you don't! Do that squeeze with you later on the reason you're? Not winning and doing what you want is somebody's opinion somebody's, opinion of you matters more to you, then you're, a pain.

It's very true, [, Music ] Everything that happened yesterday. That means nothing. ( applause, ), (, slow, music ). When you're 19 and you can spend seven full years learning your craft meeting, people that are mentors being patient and you wake up and you're 26 years old.

You have your entire life in front of you and you've done great foundational work to go on and then be successful.. I just don't get it. I don't get why people think at 18. 22. 30 that they have to have their life figured out when they live to 90 and 100.

. If you could give any quick piece of advice. [ Gary ] It's patience., I'm like lost in life. [, Gary ]. It's. Patience. You can't, be lost in life. When you're this young., Should you actually have everything figured out 18 or 20 percent into your life? Absolutely not more importantly than that your life evolves and changes.

As you get older. Too many kids don't take advantage of time.. They're in such a rush to find it or be doing it that they don't. Take advantage of the thing they have. Figuring. Everything out is a forever game.

. Have you figured out how awesome you're gonna be as a grandma when you're, still, not a grandma, Whether it's, your parents or yourself or people, everybody's, trying to prove something so Early., It's, the pressures of society, the pressures of your siblings and most of all, the pressures of your parents.

. So many of you are scared to fail, because your dads gonna make you feel bad about it., And I have empathy for that. That sucks., I'm very fascinated by negative energy. That is not cut-outable.. You need to put your fuckin'earpods in and listen to positive 24/7 and it'll.

Get you through that., Or this ideological thing, that the media or culture has put in your head of what you're supposed to be or how you're supposed to roll, or what's supposed to be happening at This point is ludicrous.

. You're, not lost in life. You're just early in the process. ( upbeat music ), You just don't meet 90 year olds that talk about how pumped they are that they made an extra hundred thousand dollars.. They don't exist.

. They talk about regret.. I wish I did literally. Inevitably I do this. I wish is the opening line.. The judgment you put on yourself that is actually being fabricated by outside forces, is to me the thing that I'm, trying to fundamentally break down.

. Just fundamentally trying to break it. Down. Everybody's judging themselves way too early.. You can literally do nothing for the next eight years and be a child. Time. Is your asset.? The one thing a 20 year old has over me is 20 fuckin'years.

, But you don't, think that because when you're 22, you don't. Think 31 is young.. Maybe there's, a problem with youth. Yeah. I mean that's, everybody's, got strengths and weaknesses.. What a 60 year old has is experience, but doesn't have time.

. What youth has is time.. You can literally do four different things over the next two years, six months at a time to figure out everything that you think you might like. You should try to do., But that's.

Not what people tell you to do. Yeah. They tell you to do your job. 100 percent.. What I would do is gather as many experiences as possible. Go and travel and learn. Go and start that business that you've, always wanted.

Hook up with those three teammates and start that band. You've, always wanted.. This is the time to be massively risk massively risk. Oriented. Pick something and fuckin & # 39. Do it.! You're, a fuckin'young kid.

You can do all 19 things.. If you're under 32 33 and you're devastated that you don't, have your life figured out? You're, just looking at the game completely wrong. Take a breath. Take a fuckin'breath.

, And so that's. What I'm, trying to tell people. It's. What you don't! Do that screws with you later on. The reason you're, not winning and doing what you want is somebody's opinion somebody's, opinion of you matters more to you than your opinion of yourself.

. It's very true., ( applause, )